SUGGESTIONS FOR FACILITATORS
OF DISCUSSION GROUPS
“A
Heart for the Harvest”
The purposes of the discussion
groups are to provide an environment in which people who are working through the
Self-Study and Reflection Guide can discover additional insights concerning
evangelism, share insights with others, learn from what others share, and
support others who are also in the process of receiving the transfusions that
energize evangelism.
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Keeping the group on the subject. Every comment does not have to be directly related to the Reflections, but it should be related in some way to evangelism. Make sure you don't allow the discussion to become a matter of complaining about evangelism, either, because that will not be productive. |
In addition to following these
principles, once in a while you may have to deal with unique problems.
If a group member persistently dominates, “corrects” other members,
or engages in any behavior or attitudes that are harmful to the group, you will
probably need to speak to them, outside the group setting.
This is difficult to do, but it is necessary.
You can't let the whole group suffer and run the risk of derailing the
evangelistic progress of the church out of tolerance for one person's
ungodliness. Anyone who does this
sort of thing probably does it in other church settings too and likely needs to
have someone confront him anyway. This
is just as good an opportunity as any, since it is affecting the Lord's mission.
The
First Meeting
At the first meeting, take some time to explain
what the purpose of the group is and what the format will be.
The purpose is to further process, share, learn, encourage, and be
encouraged in the quest to find a heart for the harvest.
If the group members don't really
know each other, you may want to begin with a non-threatening ice-breaker like,
What's your name and what do you do? or Pair off and spend 3 minutes getting
acquainted, then come back and introduce your new friend
to the group.
Regular
Group Meetings
Before the main discussion, you may
want to use some kind of icebreaker question each week, to get the group warmed
up. Good icebreakers are
non-threatening, open ended, and a matter of personal opinion (i.e., no right or
wrong answer). They are designed
merely to get people talking. Examples
might be: What is your favorite childhood memory?, What is your favorite food?,
or If you could live wherever you wanted, where would you choose?
You might then transition into the discussion by saying something like,
“Ultimately we want to live in heaven and help lots of others live there too.
That's why we're here tonight.” Make
sure you don't spend too much time on icebreakers, however, and they may not be
needed at all in some groups.
The heart of the weekly meetings
will consist of open discussion concerning the Reflections.
Don't be afraid to ask regularly: How is everyone doing on working
through the Reflections? Are you
approaching them thoughtfully? If
people do not spend time on the Reflections before the group meeting, there is
little, if any, basis for the meeting. Asking
these questions will serve as a reminder and exhortation.
If members become slack in doing
the reflections, you will need to exhort them more directly to persevere in
doing the work. One way of doing
this to: a) remind them of what the reflections are (namely, an opportunity for
God to touch their hearts and minds), b) remind them of what good may come from
their working through them (namely gaining a compelling, inward desire to reach
out to others), and then c) directly exhort them to continue.
This approach includes a direct statement of what needs to be done,
coupled with solid reasons for doing it.
You may or may not want to set a
specific portion of the reflections to cover at each meeting.
Not setting a specific amount allows people to work at their own pace and
feel the (good) leisure to absorb what they are contemplating.
During the discussion time, people can talk about whatever they have been
learning, whether others are on the same Reflections or not.
If you return to the same point a week or two later, no harm is done. On
the other hand, if you want to ask everyone to cover a certain number by the
next meeting, you may do so. Just
make certain you do not set the number so high that people will not be able to
process them adequately.
Questions
for Regular Group Meetings
(Encourage
them to refer to specific questions and Scriptures from the Reflection guide.
Have everyone turn there and look at it together.
You may want to help a person further process the subject and formulate
additional conclusions. You could
encourage them to do so by asking things like, Do you really believe that is
true? Have you ever seen or
experienced that? Why do you think
that is important? What difference
would it make if we took that seriously? What
could you do to act on that? (You
may also want to allow others to build on what someone shares by asking...)
Did anyone else write something down on that one?
or Does anyone else have something to share about this?
(Most of the discussion time will be spent on question #1.
You may need to repeat it a few times.)
2.
How did you do with the practical applications?
Who can tell us what they did for a practical application?
Does anyone need to share something with the group tonight as a response
to the practical applications (e.g., Reflection #4).
3.
What impression are these reflections making on you?
Do you believe God is touching your heart?
How are you feeling about the investment you are making?
4.
Do you need any kind of help from the rest of the group?
(This might be encouragement, exhortations, answers to specific
questions, help with a problem, etc.)
5.
Who is missing tonight? Who
all will give them a call this week?
NOTE:
These questions are intended to generate discussion, interaction, and
learning. If your group takes off
and has meaningful discussion without using these questions in a structured way,
that is fine. They are only a tool
to help generate helpful exchanges. In
any case, make sure you do not use them in a business-like, “let's get through
these questions” kind of way.
PROCESS
ORIENTED LEARNING
You may have noticed that you learn
a lot more when you teach a class than when you are
a student in it. Part of the
reason for this is that you spend more time preparing, but an even more
significant factor is that in your preparation you are learning actively.
You are digging into The Word for yourself, and you are actively
thinking, formulating, and clarifying. You
know that you are responsible for understanding the material as well as possible
so you can teach the class. In
contrast, merely attending a class may allow you to get lazy and be passive the
entire time. You may not have to
engage your mind or heart at all, especially if the teacher just drones on.
Wouldn't it be great if we could find a way to get
every student to go through the same kind of preparation as the one who is
teaching the class? Imagine how
great the learning would be! A
process-oriented approach to teaching/learning has the potential to do something
close to that.
One of the great enemies of a
process-oriented approach is the desire to “fix” people or “straighten
them out.” We sometimes want
people to come to all the right conclusions (ours) immediately.
We almost can't bear for someone to be either uncertain or in
disagreement with us about an issue. We
forget that we ourselves went through a long, difficult process of study,
discussion, observation, and thinking to arrive at our conclusions.
Due to the importance of the subject matter, religious teachers appear to
be especially susceptible to “fixing” people.
Another great enemy of a process-oriented approach
is, frankly, the desire to be in the limelight or to hear ourselves talk.
Many of us love the Word and spend much time studying it.
Our
time in the Word is one of the things that makes us teachers.
However, if we are not careful, we will fall prey to a subtle form of
self-centeredness. It manifests
itself in our dominating the class discussion because we have so much we want to
say. Sometimes we literally cannot
bear to have a subject come up without us sharing what we know or what we've
always thought about it. The
question is, Are we saying it because it will be best for the students or
because we want to “do our thing?” In
a process-oriented approach, the emphasis is not on what the teacher can say
about a subject, but on how well the teacher can get the students to think,
process, and share about the subject.
The situation is similar to raising children.
It is difficult to sit on our hands while our kids fumble around trying
to learn to tie their own shoes. We
are tempted to just say, “Here, let me do it,” and take over.
Yet if we do, the child will never learn to tie shoes for himself.
He will always be dependent on us. As
a result, he is also likely to lack confidence in his abilities in other areas
as well. Or, if we always rush right
in and tell our kids how they should have handled a certain situation, they will
be handicapped in their ability to solve their own problems.
A much more helpful approach is to ask questions and help them work
through the situations for themselves. If
they have handled a situation poorly, they will probably be suffering some
consequences. Pain is a great
attention-getter. At that point, all
you have to do is help them and encourage them to evaluate the way they handled
it and draw some conclusions of their own from the experience.
Process-oriented learning is
especially appropriate in the field of discipleship.
After all, a disciple is not a person who can correctly spit out all the
right facts and answers. Some people
who “grew up in the church” and learned all the right answers have ruined
their lives and lost their faiths because their knowledge of facts was powerless
to help them live well (cf. Col. 2:21-23). Being
able to list the towns in Paul's missionary journeys does not help a person
resist sexual temptation. This is
not to disparage knowledge. It is to
say that what we really need is not just facts and learning in our heads but
also faith and love in our hearts. Going
through a thoughtful process of assimilating the Word will help our knowledge be
meaningful to us and be a part of our lives.
Jesus appears to have used some
principles very similar to what I am calling process- oriented learning.
This is especially true in his use of parables and questions.
The points of some of his parables and the answers to some of his
questions were quite clear. But
other questions and parables did not have obvious answers and applications.
There were times when Jesus' apparent purpose in using parables and
questions was to get the people to think. Even
in cases when the point was obvious, these two teaching devices are much more
likely to force to a person out of the passive mode, involve them in the
learning process, and make the information meaningful to him (If this is not
crystal clear to you, please read Matt. 6:28-31; 7:9-10; 9:4-5, 13; 11:2-6; Mark
8:17-21; Luke 10:25-26, 36; 12:54-57).
Similarly, Paul seemed to think not
everyone would understand or agree with all he said, at least not immediately
(cf. Phil. 3:12-16; II Tim. 2:7). He
was willing to give people some time and space to work through things (I Cor.
10:15). We should do the same.
Practical
Implications
So what are some of the practical
implications of this type of learning? How
will it affect us in our group discussions?
For one thing, the leader plays a different role from what most of us are
used to. The role is not to be the
answer man. It is more like being a
facilitator, one who enables something to happen.
What we want to happen is for people to process, clarify, and verbalize
what they have been exposed to in God's word over the last seven days.
In your role as facilitator, you ask questions that give the students an
opportunity to reflect and share. Some
standard initial questions will be provided to you for this purpose.
A good facilitator also allows some times of silence as people search for
answers. He doesn't fill up all the
time with more noise or people will stop thinking.
Silence is his ally, because it forces the students to think.
He doggedly resists the urge to tell all he knows on the subject at hand,
unless there is some pressing reason for him to do so.
Good facilitators don't feel obligated to comment after each person
shares something. Sometimes we feel
obligated to say everything we know about a subject, even when it is not
helpful. When good facilitators do
respond, they first consider whether it may be better to do something besides
just “giving the answer” or “telling what they've always thought about the
subject.” There are times
when they will give an answer or correct a misleading statement, but there are
also times when they encourage a student to pursue his own questions further or
make some suggestions of how he could do so (like “read Galatians” or
“talk to Ed” or “try it this week and see how it works.” etc.)
The process-oriented approach to
learning will pay rich dividends because it increases the students' desire for
and attention to the biblical teaching. However,
this approach requires a definite and deliberate change from the traditional
approach to teaching most of us are used to.
SUPPLEMENTAL
QUESTIONS FOR PROCESS ORIENTED LEARNING
Initial
Questions
1.
What did you learn this week?
2.
What made an impression on you during your reflection time this week?
3.
Were there any concepts that were new to you?
4.
Were there any Scriptures that were especially meaningful?
5.
Was any of the material especially relevant to you right now?
6.
What was the most significant insight you covered this week?
7.
Who else has something to share?
8.
Let's hear from someone who hasn't
had a chance to share anything today.
Follow-up
Questions
(after someone has made a statement)
1.
Why? Why is that important?
What difference does it make?
2.
What are some ways that will/should affect you personally?
3.
How could you act on that today or tomorrow?
4.
How could you pursue that further?
5.
Does anyone else have something to add to this?
Ways
to Respond to Students' Questions to You
1.
What do you think? or What do
you think right now?
2.
Would anyone else like to share something about this?
3.
Give them some texts or other resources for them to consult.
4. Give your answer (only if you sense they really want an answer).